SEASON OF LOVE

With markets & shops flooded with chocolates, teddies and heart shaped toys it seems that "Season of Love" is in full swing! Season of Love! Sounds so strange, no?? The one which is eternal, which is the cause behind this world, which is the purpose of human life-, is that seasonal? Anyway leave it! I don't want to sound like a weird old person, interested in giving a long lecture on Life Long Relationships, loyalty, eternity of love & so on. Obviously I can't afford to do that! At least in the world where one may have so many "SPECIAL FRIENDS" at the same time, Where one break up hurts one's heart so much that it turns out too weak to fall in love with anyone it finds next!

I don't want to debate on what this love is! I don't say that Love is not only an affair between a boyfriend and girlfriend, attraction of a guy towards a girl or vice verse. Better to leave it undefined since its better and only way to feel it than explain.

Since this is the most hot selling cake, since love is in the air as being a member of this lively world, this is my take on the issue. Love has varied shapes and forms. But foundation stone of every love is - a relationship! No matter with whom? How Long? Named or Unnamed? Any of these can make a difference but only of a degree rather than a kind! The basics of every relationship or say love are the same- Trust, Faith, Understanding and Respect.

Look at the irony of the world where Love is tending on twitter, facebook and watsapp, relationships are facing a crisis. We are giving way for Live-In Relationships with Life less Relations! Relationships are not based on mutual understanding but the need of undue advantages forges us to make relationships! Gone are the days of Life Long Relations but life of relationship is as long as it has something lucrative to offer for!

Stupid we are that in the search of pebbles we miss the diamonds! So always learn to value the relationships- old or new, nearer or farther. Never leave the person who was with you when there was no one around you! Always stand by the person who stood against the entire world for you! May be there are differences. But if differences are ours solutions must be ours. Bring them in open, Speak, Share, Talk and Solve! It is not the anger but the ignorance & silence which kill the relationships.

Don't be under the impression that you don't require them anymore. That your life can move on perfectly without them. Remember History always repeats itself! You never know when you need them next! So be careful because mirror once broken can't be repaired without crack!

Its really strange that people forget someone when they find they find a new one. They forget that old is gold and wine gets better with the passage of time! The memories of any relationship are like items sent to the recycle bin. We can restore whenever you what. The fights, the quarrels often bring smile on our faces during the hours of gloominess. The joyful moments of past remain in the present as tears in the eyes!

Learn to value, Learn to reciprocate. Try to hear unsaid words! Never think that Love is above expectations. If a person is not saying something, it never means he is not expecting anything from us. Since we expect only from the ones whom we love, whom we care for! So try never to hurt one however unintentional. If we will care for them, nature will automatically make way for the Love in life!

Just want to say that value every relationship of the life- Friends, Beloved, Parents, Relatives and Teachers. Value them, cherish them and nourish them with the tender touch of care and concern! Once we learn it Love will never be seasonal but our Life will have only one season- Season of Love!

On this note wish you all a Very Happy Valentine's Day!!