Sunday 21 April 2013

Thinking About the Change : Change Your Thinking

Are like many other Indian fellows you are also silently waiting for the change to come and embrace India for a better future? Are you also wondering when will India change? When will its people grow up? Don’t bother my dear friend. I have answers to all the queries boggling up your mind! Better you keep waiting since this change is never about to come in India!

 You know what change is the changing trend in India which everyone is crying and shouting for. But how will this change come when no one is ready to change himself?

I know you are going to say that many Indians, many youngsters of India want change to happen and they will bring the change. I wonder how they will bring the change when there is nothing which they have changed in themselves.

 They are more or less an old wine in a new bottle. Their hairstyle has changed but not their minds. Their clothes have changed but not their sleepy conscience. They may seem modern, progressive, liberal, broadminded, professionals, big hearted and inhaling all what is fresh and new for the human beings. But when it comes to ideas, dreams, principles, creed, views and feelings they are way worse than our ancestors, grand some in appearance but fake in reality.

                                                                        
Change is not something alien, falling from the sky. It is very much inherent within us. Lets be the change we want to see in the world. Don’t wait for others. We ourselves as an individual are the center of our own world. Lets change our self world will change automatically.

There is no secret that everyone has fed up of this system. Poverty, corruption, communalism, rapes, molestation all have traumatized our society which are sucking up all our energy, our vitality, our dreams and our hopes. But this system is for us, with us and by us. It is we who make this system. Once we change ourselves, the system will change automatically.

                                        

Remember laws can never bring the change. Since we know good men need no law to fulfill their responsibility and bad men will always find a way to defy these laws. No doubt, law can sustain and act as a catalyst to change but to let it do its work we must change our heart, our mind and our shattered conscience.

Nothing is going to happen if we simply sit in the arm chair and crap that this system is never going to change. When no one will take the pains to go out and  use their right to vote, change will not knock the door and ask,” May I come in?”.

I wonder will this long cherished change ever come in India when caste, religion and region are changing the cards of our politics. Where we can’t change our thinking but think that changing the clothes of women will do!

I know that listening again and again to this change mantra has set our head on fire. Just Chill Man!! Be cool but not cold to the evils of the society. Don’t wait for others. No one is coming there to save you. The world is mired in such a crisis that no one has time to bother about others. Be your own leader. Your own Messiah and take the initiative. Change yourselves, your family your friends I bet society will also change. Now its high time for the change but don’t think about the change, Change your thinking!


12 comments:

  1. nice blog dear....but m worried if any devil mind man hv the guts to read this sort of article...somehow if they read any, they ll make fun out of it.... People like you are the hope of youth... You guys make socity worth living... Jai Hind !

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  2. Thanks you so much for the appreciation. I do hope that every sensitive person reads it and contribute the little he can make towards this cause. I am doing what I feel right lets people choose their own way. :) Thanks Once again. Jai Hind!!

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  3. Priti Maheshwari24 April 2013 at 10:36

    Well written..... i totally agree... we should initiate . may be there are some problem in the way but finally it will be appreciated and accepted by everyone :)

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  4. once again regional newspapers are full of candle marches, riots, comments by ministers...THIS NEEDS TO BE CHANGED...we have to take the initiation for changing it...your writings inspire us...very well said.

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  5. Thats the actual point Priti. Once initiated, It will definitely be accepted by our society. After all Change is the only thing that is permanent. Thanks for sparing your time to read it and give your feedback :)

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  6. Nainy Thanks for motivation . It really helps. Yes, Its high time for the change but remember charity begins at home. That is the essence of the article :)

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  7. Your post - as always - quite successfully analyses the futility of expecting change. You rightly
    expose the insincerity and reluctance with which we are pursuing this ideal. Although the subject has
    been dominating our social discourse for quite sometime now, we have miserably failed at delivering anything constructive.
    We,the stakeholders in any social change, have reduced our contribution to a a morbid form of armchair activism, where visibility seems to matter more than any actual ideological commitment. Like on a fine Sunday, Mr. A likes a wall post against corruption in the morning, attends an anti-Corruption
    agitation with friends in the afternoon and promptly takes some pictures and uploads them. The very same evening he calls up someone to procure a fake rent-agreement for tax benefits!! The day ends with only words, "breaking-news" and not an iota of change.
    Change is eternal. We are changing every moment ..... but as a society are we progressing or regressing! To quote Gayatri Spivak Chakraborty what we need now is to make our ourselves intuitively humane and democratic .
    This is the key to revolutionary change and our teachers alone carry it!

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  8. Thanks Bhaskar! I always look forward to your feedback. It really motivates me. :)

    As always you have rightly grasped the intent of article. Unless this difference in our theory and actions is removed, nothing is going to change. I do hope that Along with our teachers we people understand it as soon as possible and act accordingly. Thanks once again :)

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  9. Dear Daisy ji,

    Apka blog padha, prasangik laga. Indian society ki yeh bidambna rahi hai ki hum avatar ka wait karte rahe hain social change ke liye, West main is prakar ke udahran nahin milte, ya kam milte hain, agar hum apna kaam bhi theek se kare, bhale hi uska daira seemit ho, hum sudhar la sakte hain samajik soch main, par hum to doosare ke sahi hone ka wait karte hai.

    Achcha hai apka drashtikon...aage badhaiye isko.
    Aabhar,

    Ravi

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  10. Ravi Sir, am glad that you liked it. Par aap muje Daisy kh k bulaye to acha lagegea Abhi me boht choti hu aap se boht kuch seekhna hai muje :)

    Aapne bilkul shi kha Sir Agar hum sab apna apna kaam sahi dange se karne lag jaye to ye desh ye samaj apne aap sudhar jayega. Surely I'l try my level Best :)

    Thanks for reading & motivating

    Regards

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  11. i hv an idea cn we create some sought of organisation?

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    1. If it is something related to good for the society I am always ready. Let me know your plans & ideas. Till then tc :)

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