One Sided Love : One way Traffic

Love is the most passionate feeling, the most magical thing that can ever happen in this world. I wonder the feeling which completes our world, our life; can it be incomplete if it is only from one side? If the other person doesn't have the same feeling for us, does it make sense to call our love unethical, wrong, not correct or infatuation!

Love is Love irrespective of the fact if it is from both sides or from one side only! In no case its piousness perishes away, in no way its sanctity shrinks down, in no sense it loses its essence or significance. In fact one sided love is more pure, more pious and more passionate. We know that there is nothing to get in return, nothing to compensate, nobody to reciprocate and still we go that, that’s the extreme of love!

Those who all bombard so many questions at this one sided but true love like Why, When, Where, How??? Can they please answer if Love happens for any specific reasons? Is there any particular timing decided for it? Or love has to follow a typical set of procedure? No its other way round. Love is never forced, it just happens, from the bottom of the heart, deep rooted in the soul! Mind it Love has nothing to do with being in a relationship. To get into a relationship is our decision and love just happens. When you love someone, you just do. There are no maybes no buts and no whys.

Again one sided love is advised to keep both brain & heart open! But where we start using the brain, love loses its presence. This is the feeling which is only related with heart, can be felt by heart and can be understood by heart only. If we start thinking about profit or lose, about right or wrong, about happiness or pain, about return or gain, we will be having all intellect on our side but love.

People say one sided love often leads us to the world of gloominess, to the world of pain. So what is wrong in that? We have grown up listening to that No Pains, No gains. Even if we have to undergo the pain, the hurt, we also have the moments which no words can explain. They're excellent days of life when we are in love; the hours of forgetfulness, smiling with ourselves, tinkling of heart are something nothing can compensate for!

So don’t ask your heart from stop loving even if only you alone are holding the string of love. In fact hold it more passionately, more sincerely and with utmost happiness. You can erase someone from your mind. Getting them out of your heart is another story. Memories are always more loyal than their creators. Have all reasons to be happy. Don’t consider your one sided love as Break Up as you can be a good friend of your loved one and can have good relationship with them. Learn from those who suffered in relationship. Become an optimist. 

Clearly understand that only you are having romantic affection so stop getting emotionally disturbed. It may be possible that the person has his own prior, predefined commitments, engagements, Go ahead & accept them. If someone shows you their true colors, don't try to paint a different picture. Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows. Remember some people are meant to fall in love with each other, but not meant to be together. So keep on loving the people, caring for them but don’t want them back.

As said Feelings don't walk away, people do. More often we miss the memories, not the person. It's so hard to pretend to be friends with someone special, when every time you look at that person, all you see is everything you want to have. In that case remember Love doesn't need to be perfect or complete, it just needs to be true. Never feel sad as they lost someone who loved them but you lost someone who didn't love you. Just pray, wish & hope that at least they get their love, so that your one sided love gets satisfaction that their love is Happy for always and always. So you have nothing special to do for that… just leave them to go ahead with their happiness. As said everybody has the power to make someone else happy. Some do it by entering the room, while some do it by leaving. I don't wish something bad happens with you, it's enough you lost me and there is love in holding and letting go.