My Life: My Way

Many a times all of us are in a fussy stage of “what the people will say” This one single line takes us away from the real WE within us and we live a life that is never ours. We follow a path our heart never wants to pursue. But before we give up to these cruel PEOPLE, have we dared to ask who all these people are!

Yes, they may be many, Majority in number. They may give us the dictates of right and wrong. And to have a peaceful life we must be swayed with the waves of their opinions, their views. But have we ever wondered If we all had to live the way of common practice then why did God wasted his precious time in creating each one of us Unique in its own way. Why it is so that everyone praises Rainbow but raises the eyebrows when we opt for the different colors!! Come On! We are not Lords who can taste the same Parsadas for all the days. We are simple human being, our taste buds want different taste every day. We want change. Yes, Change- the only constant thing. But bringing that change is not easy either. For that we have to do something different, something which many others won’t dare to do, and something which will not be apprehended by others that soon.

Don’t get panic. You have to become Rowdy to take all criticism for your courage to bring change, for being different, for standing unique in the masses. But once your purpose is understood you will not only be accepted with open arms but also be appreciated with warm hearts. Look at the History. Most of the heroes have to undergo the fire fighting during their life time. It was in the later days of their life that they were recognized as Heroes and sometimes even after that.

Remember you have to fight with all sort of villains to become a Hero. The only thing constant in all the heroes is that they listen to their own heart, did what they wanted to do, without heeding to what the world wanted them to do. Since they all knew that may be heart is on left side but it is always right. So follow your instincts, chase your dreams, fight for your goal and live your own life.  Don’t forget you are the best judge of your destiny. No one else can decide better for you unless they wear your shoes. It’s great that you want to make the people around you happy but mind it you can’t please everybody.  First be happy with yourself and only then you can become the cause of the happiness to others.  How can we expect one to distribute something which he doesn't own himself?  So be happy and for this you can’t ignore the voice of your heart. Remember you are the best companion of yourself, who will always be with you even when you are unable to find these so many people whom you worry for throughout the life.